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Daughter of the King - born from above in 1989.

Deborah grew up in a military family and moved to Florida in the early 1970's.  She began her journey of creative writing soon after coming to know Jesus as her personal Savior. Her primary goal is to share her personal testimony with others while bringing hope and practical help through her writing.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Here comes the Bride…

Everybody loves a wedding! Wedding customs in the Bible centered on the two events of the betrothal and the wedding. On the day of the wedding, the bride dressed in white, elaborately embroidered robes, bedecked herself with jewels, and put on a veil. The bridegroom, attended by friends and accompanied by musicians and singers, went to the bride’s house. After receiving her from her parents, and with their blessing, he conducted the whole wedding party back to his own house. On the way other friends of the bride and groom joined the party with much music and dancing. A feast was held at the bridegroom’s house. Later in the evening, the bride’s parents escorted her to the nuptial chamber where the bridegroom was waiting. Festivities often lasted for several days.

Jesus performed His first miracle in Cana of Galilee at the wedding of a relative. He was there with His mother, other relatives and His disciples (John 2:1-10).  When the servants attending to the feast made it known to His mother that the wine had run out, she in turn approached her son and said, “They have no wine.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does your concern have to do with Me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother then told the servants to do whatever He asked. Jesus did intervene on the host’s behalf and miraculously, the six large water-pots, each containing twenty to thirty gallons of water, became filled with wine. The master of the feast then commended the bridegroom for saving the best wine for the end, unlike most weddings, which served inferior wine at the end of the festivities.

The new covenant, which we as believers share, represents the marriage covenant that will never be broken, and was sealed with the precious shed blood of Jesus Christ on Calvary. Jesus gathered with the apostles during His last Passover meal, and as He shared with them the cup and bread, it symbolized the sacrifice He would willingly make to redeem mankind. In the Jewish marriage contract there were promises the bridegroom would make to his future bride. It also stated the price he would pay to obtain her. If she agreed, the bridegroom would hand her a cup of wine. If she drank from the cup, the marriage was sealed and they became legally married. He would then say to her, “I will not drink of this cup until we are reunited.” Jesus Himself said in Matthew 26:29, “But I say to you, I will not drink of this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it new with you in My Father’s kingdom.”

The Apostle Paul talks extensively about the bride as it relates to the New Testament church. In Ephesians 5:25-27, Paul exhorts husbands to, “love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it, that He might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that He might present it to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that it should be holy and without blemish.” Then in verses 31-32, He reminds us of the Genesis 2:24 passage: “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become on flesh.” “This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.” Then, in II Corinthians 11:2, Paul also writes, “For I am jealous for you with godly jealousy. For I have betrothed you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ.”  Paul  was enamored with Christ and understood the position of trust that had been bestowed on him with regards to His church. He established and nurtured many congregations throughout Asia minor, often referring to them with heartfelt terms of endearment.

John, the beloved, also wrote about Christ and His bride – the church. In Revelation 19:6-9 he writes, “And I heard, as it were, the voice of a great multitude, as the sound of many waters and as the sound of mighty thunderings, saying, “Alleluia! For the Lord God Omnipotent reigns!” “Let us be glad and rejoice and give Him glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready.” And to her it was granted to be arrayed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints. Then he said to me, “Write: ‘Blessed are those who are called to the marriage supper of the Lamb!’” And he said to me, “These are the true says of God.” And in Revelation 21:9 he wrote, “Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls filled with the seven last plagues came to me and talked with me saying, “Come, I will show you the bride, the Lamb’s wife.”

The following poem was written by me after reflection in prayer on the state of the church -

                                 HIS BRIDE
Jesus awaits His betrothed. She is the Bride His Father chose from the beginning. The day draws near but wait;

She primps and fusses - more creams, toners, makeup, polish, perfume,
etc., etc., etc. [works, works, works]

She carefully dons her dress, accessories and shoes. She smoothes out the wrinkles.  She adorns herself with jewels and gold chains. Gazing in the mirror - she is satisfied; a sense of pride wells up…“looking good” she think. But there is the deception.

Oh, Church … The Bride is grieving her Bridegroom. It is what is on the inside He mourns. The inner beauty and purity that once gleamed from within has faded;  the tender heart, her soothing touch, the gaze of a deep abiding love and thoughts of contentment have all but vanished.

His Bride to be is frail, disillusioned, and frazzled. He longs for the excitement of when their love was fresh and new. He yearns for her devotion once again. The Lord does not look upon the outward appearance, but upon the heart…

Oh, Church … focus once more on the inner beauty -For what Groom would anxiously await such a Bride?

“Nevertheless I have this against you, that you have left your first love.” (Revelation 2:4)

D L McCarragher 1996



  1. Congratulations and I am really looking forward to doing for your very special day!! Thanks again for another sweet post and nice and awesome post.
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